What will you leave behind when you exit this world, Reader?
That's the question I'm pondering after finishing episode one of NatGeo's Secrets of the Whales docuseries.
Let me explain.
The first episode is all about orca whales.
If you've known me for a bit, you know I can't help but nerd out on orca facts.
You see, each orca pod has a unique culture passed down from matriarch to matriarch.
No two pods hunt the same way. Some examples:
Orcas in Norway herd herring into "bait balls." Then the Mama Orca slaps the bait ball with her tail, stunning the fish so her family can feast.
In New Zealand, the resident orcas hunt stingrays in shallow channels. So they don't get stung, the orcas flip the rays upside-down, which puts them to sleep. Then Mama Orca makes a few excited clicks to call the family to dinner.
In Patagonia, the orcas hunt in a secret cove home to elephant seals. Grandmother Orca teaches her granddaughters how to catch a wave, surf onto the beach, and grab a pup. It's a very dangerous maneuver because the whales can easily get beached.
Because these techniques are unique to each pod, the matriarch must pass on her knowledge.
If a matriarch dies before she can pass on the traditions, the culture is lost.
If that Patagonian grandmother doesn't teach the babies how to ride waves, the pod will eventually starve and die out.
How does this relate to you, Reader?
First of all, whale culture is fascinating and I had to tell you about it.
Second of all, we humans aren't that different from our whale friends.
Every human family has unique stories and traditions.
Like the orcas, if stories are not passed down, they're lost. Theoretically, the family ceases to exist.
Story is the keystone of human culture.
It is our gift.
Here's what I (most likely) know about you, Reader:
If that's you, I invite you to channel the Mama Orcas who pass down their hunting techniques to their daughters.
Mama Orca never doubts she's a "real whale."
Mama Orca understands if she doesn't pass down her knowledge, no one will, and her family will disappear.
Mama Orca is solid in her role as a wisdom keeper. She's not afraid to put in the hard work to keep her culture alive.
Be like Mama Orca.
Your story is your culture. Whether you're writing fiction, nonfiction, or something else...
You have a duty to pass down your wisdom, Reader.
How will you answer that call? Hit reply and share with me. I read and respond to every email.
Write on,
Renee
PS – Secrets of the Whales is a fantastic weekend watch if you're rained out this Labor Day. Or save it for a cozy weekend in the fall. It's on Disney+ and so worth it!
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